If you’re like me, you’re a creature of stability, you crave that one love that will come and stay, no overthinking.
It’s very likely that you have had many lessons in love and you’re actually on the verge of completely letting this go and considering being alone for the rest of your life.
Disappointment after disappointment, you’re just tired, of being open to meeting the one for you, you can fill the blank… but generally we want to be one and only, we want to be safe knowing this man is claiming us fully (it’s actually very masculine of you, dear men!), we want to see that he can lead and be soft & caring re your feelings and pin you to the wall during the passionate moments. That’s pretty much what all woman want.
So there comes a day where you go on that dating app for the last time and tell yourself, ok! I’ll try for the final time, and if this time it doesn’t work then I give up…
And yea, some meet the one on the app. Others get to the point of texting, getting calls, amazing sex, all going great and suddenly silence, with or without explanation. The explanation might be genuine, or it could be a cover up of a lie just like most men do, I said most not all! It depends… if you happen to have met one who is genuine and seriously he’s just not ready yet to be with you because he’s not fully healed after some crazy ex who was giving him breadcrumbs, then that’s cool.. you’re likely to have him come back once you both do some inner work or tidy up some stuff that might need attention in your lives… I mentioned you both because a stick does have two ends, and what I mean by that is that everyone is a reflection of you / a mirror; so that would imply that you two might have to look within what’s going on in your inner world.
During that time of „silence” I’d like to suggest you doing a couple of things, that regardless if you two come back together or not, will shift you higher and make you all prepared for the true love energy you’re seeking.
Those include.. taking yourself on dates, baths, flowers, trips, lunches, wearing nice lingerie for yourself … basically a major physical glow up (do it for yourself !) … but most importantly ~ tidy up your mind and realise that you have the magic wand which is your consciousness, which you can and should use to „align” with your dream life frequency. I teach about it in my sessions accessible Here
Understanding your inner world and how you „call in” your true love is not for some advanced souls, it’s available for everyone.
On top of that do pray. What that does it’s helping you to surrender and stay aligned with the highest timeline that is available to you. So if that man you want is „meant for you” & the growth you’ll go through in coming years, he will go on this ride in life with you / after all you are looking to be with your life partner not a temporary lover.
If you do all this, I guarantee you’ll align with the perfect match for you, because you will have high standards, strong self concept, the right attitude re love and trust in the divine unfolding of things. You’ll feel free happy and whole, and that man you want by your side will be a lovely companion that adds value to your already complete whole life.
Love, A x
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