soulshift

 If you’re like me, you’re a creature of stability, you crave that one love that will come and stay, no overthinking. It’s very likely that you have had many lessons in love and you’re actually on the verge of completely letting this go and considering being alone for the rest of your life.  Disappointment after disappointment, you’re just tired, of being open to meeting the one for you, you can fill the blank… but generally we want to be one and only, we want to be safe knowing this man is claiming us fully (it’s actually very masculine of you, dear men!), we want to see that he can lead and be soft & caring re your feelings and pin you to the wall during the passionate moments. That’s pretty much what all woman want.  So there comes a day where you go on that dating app for the last time and tell yourself, ok! I’ll try for the final time, and if this time it doesn’t work then I give up…  And yea, some meet the one on the app. Others get to the point of texting,...

 There comes a day in your life when you realise that you’ve had enough lessons in love.  I mean lessons that took you from one person to another and brought you lots of heartache and disappointment.  Maybe it wasn’t all in vein.  Maybe you were being prepared.  I’ve come across many TikTok’s and Instagram reels where people are really giving up on dating. They have so much to offer but they keep on meeting people who aren’t there to stay. Someone wrote “why am I always the girl before they meet the one” or “why do I always meet people who aren’t ready yet”. I know it sucks. I was both on my journey. It can actually make you feel bitter and your heart might harden a little.  But think bigger.  You will get over it. And it will eventually make you realise that maybe you’ve been paying attention to the wrong things. Realising this will make you question your own choices moving forwards.  Yes you will still have a type or certain features you’re look...

So you’ve met that person and everything felt great, the connection felt amazing, the conversations, similar interests, it felt real good, the touch included.  You might have thought this is your person.  In such deep connection your deepest fears and insecurities will come out to the surface.  And you’ll have to face them, one by one.  If you’re the divine feminine you’ll go through a difficult time, you won’t understand why this happened and what really happened, to logical mind it doesn’t make sense. Divine masculine might seem to be unbothered, they just run, if this is a Twinflames connection. DM isn’t really much bothered by what you’re feeling and that sucks.  You might send a text or two, truly you’re doing it for you, because you’re trying to find peace, sense and self regulation.  Days are dragging. Some feel good some feel like shit. You’re finding yourself replaying scenes and conversations, and wonder 💭 did I make it all up in my head or did i...

  In my past 3 years I ended a karmic cycle. It was long and bumpy. And if you're now going through or recently went through a break up or a heartache that felt like death, end of the world for you, sticking into the deepest parts of you being, you might be experiencing a death of a karmic relationship template, that you've carried for a long time, in many lives, which is a codependency template where you need your partner, your wife or husband to complete you. A lot of people have this. It was moulded for lifetimes, and in our families. It's hard because those imprints have the power & the pull from past lifetimes, those past life lovers, those connections, that gravity. That cord that's pulling you so so hard that it's hard to not fall for it, you cannot escape it, you love that person so so much, it feels familiar. When I was in my last relationship like this I didn't know it was a codependent relationship, i just felt a strong pull like no other, and...

If you’ve always known that you’re meant for a big soulful love this is going to speak to you. I’ve been looking for this love for years.  I’m going to be using terms such as soul love, twinflame and kingdom spouse… it’s just labels but it can be helpful to understand this union oppose to karmic and soulmate love.  So, first let me tell you that not every intense connection is a twin flame. And not every twin flame connection looks wild, chaotic, or toxic like many say it does. The real twinflame connection is meeting of two evolved humans, not toxic ones.  When you meet your twin flame ~  the one soul expressed through two human bodies ~ something very specific happens. It’s subtle, deep, and once you’ve experienced it, you can’t really un-feel it. The first thing most people notice is the “homecoming”.  From the very first physical meeting, there’s this quiet knowing in the body. Like… pinch me, is that even real? How is this even possible? It doesn’t feel new...

This festive season felt… different. Not loud-different or fireworks-different. More like *existentially drifting between timelines* different. A bit of old, a bit of new, and strangely, not much of the present. Like I had one foot in who I’ve been, one foot in who I’m becoming, and my soul hovering somewhere in between, sipping tea and observing. Oddly enough, that in-between space brought me clarity. The kind that doesn’t shout, but gently taps you on the shoulder and says, *“Hey… we need to talk.”* And so, I listened. Something has shifted inside me. I can feel it in how I’m showing up, how I speak to myself, how my self-esteem has quietly upgraded without a dramatic announcement. The inner work has been working. But here’s the funny thing about growth, we think we’re *ready* for the relationship of our dreams until that special someone actually appears. And suddenly, surprise! There’s more beneath the surface that wants to be seen, held, and gently untangled. So I sat with myself. ...

 I wanted to speak on this topic as it was a big one for me in 2025. And I know it is quite a controversial topic. After a failed long distance relationship and then a 6 month connection I made a decision. I was going to be celibate. I cut energetic cords. I told myself, you are doing this for you and your future husband, you need to be strong even if it's gonna take 6 months, a year or two ....  And I did.  Was it difficult? Not really. The only difficult thing was not knowing when I would meet the man I was dreaming of. It could have been a long time ... but I told myself, the faster you clear yourself eneregtically the faster he will appear.  For a woman it is quite important, not all women are willing to do it but doing so keeps you from absorbing shit energies from men... and keeping you pure for the right one, ideally one that you love.  And hence I knew there was no love in my last connection in 2024 I didn't have a point to be involved for something shor...