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Limbo

So you’ve met that person and everything felt great, the connection felt amazing, the conversations, similar interests, it felt real good, the touch included. 

You might have thought this is your person. 

In such deep connection your deepest fears and insecurities will come out to the surface. 

And you’ll have to face them, one by one. 

If you’re the divine feminine you’ll go through a difficult time, you won’t understand why this happened and what really happened, to logical mind it doesn’t make sense.

Divine masculine might seem to be unbothered, they just run, if this is a Twinflames connection. DM isn’t really much bothered by what you’re feeling and that sucks. 

You might send a text or two, truly you’re doing it for you, because you’re trying to find peace, sense and self regulation. 

Days are dragging. Some feel good some feel like shit. You’re finding yourself replaying scenes and conversations, and wonder 💭 did I make it all up in my head or did it all happen? Did we feel something or was it just you? 

Some days you’ll have clarity and tell yourself that it’s gonna be okay because you remember the first time you met and you’ve had all these signs that you know confirm that this is the one for you. But then some days you’ll doubt and be giving up on this whole thing feeding into the mind talking to you giving you all possible doubts to convince you that it’s just another person playing you and you’re just being naive. 

This isn’t fun. You’ll find magnesium being your friend and hugging your pillow will make you cry. It sucks.

In such moments you will be grieving what was and what isn’t now in this limbo.. and then when all tears dry out you’ll pick yourself up, do some more inner work and read books that can help you grow as a soul. 

Days and weeks will pass. Things will feel lighter.

As you start praying and surrender the outcome to God Source, you’ll find relief. You’ll find more joy in yourself and you’ll feel held by the divine.

Having done your inner work you’ll be ready for the love you’ve always dreamed of, and who your person is ~ only God will show you. So now, do what you feel is right in this moment, don’t bypass what you’re feeling. 

You’re perfect as you are and simply a perfect „match” for the one that’s meant for you. 

And that’s God’s promise. Your love will find you. What’s meant for you is yours. And it will be better than you can imagine. You’re loved, stay patient and trust in the unfolding, because you’ll blessed in ways you can’t fathom. ❤️ If you need help with this Contact me

love, A 




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